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Notes from a midlife reader: The loneliness of social media

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Kimberly Morales
Jun 20, 2026
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One of the great ironies of being a midlife woman on social media is that I’ve never been more visible and less known.

Every day, I scroll through the lives of hundreds of people. I know whose children graduated, who took a dream vacation to Italy, who remodeled their kitchen, whose spouse is having surgery next week, and who’s training for a marathon. I also know what books they’re reading and what recipes they’re cooking.

And yet, if I’m honest, I don’t feel particularly connected to most of them.

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Photo by Liubov Ilchuk on Unsplash

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